Saturday, April 3, 2010

women=problems??

Assalamu3laikum.. =)

erm, lama dah tak blaja math and baru-baru nie terjumpa lak satu equation..
check this out!
hahaha..well...definitely NO OFFENSE or GENDER DISCRIMINATION..
to understand it further, the equation not saying that girls or women are equal to problems, but it intend to say that to have a girlfriend or having a girlfriend is equal to problems..

erm, my point of view???

aku pernah couple sebelum nih
well,  i dont deserve to say that she (my ex) is a problem-giver to me, but i can say that i gave her litlle or lots of problems..to be exact, the relationship gave us problems..haha..what kind of problems? ..

here i list some of them..

1) lack of focus to something-something more important..
2) waste of money, time, phone credit..
3) always berkhayal..
4) always have complicated feelings..like of course, you feel cemburu,
 marah and rindu..chewah, xbley blah..

5) BOLEH MENDEKATI ZINA!! sebab apa? tipulah kalau kite dah couple nih tak terasa mcm nak dating2..bile dah dating, syaitan akan menggunakan peluang itu sebaik-baiknya untuk menghasut kita ke arah zina..harap dijauhkan..ameen~

dan problem yg plg besar,..aku dan dia mungkin tak DIREDHAI ALLAH pada masa tu..kenapa? why? kyo? porque?
jawapannya, adakah batasan pergaulan kami terjaga??
halalkah berkapel??....nak tahu?

walau apapun persoalannya samada couple tu haram, makruh atau halal,
bicyclely basically, setiap yg mendekati zina adalah HARAM!

haha kenapalah aku tetibe buat post psl nih..
hehe sama2lah kita cuba perbaiki diri dr segala aspek..and sama-sama slg menasihati and ber'amar makruf nahi munkar'... =)

till then~

salam =)

p/s: camna nk elak dr bercouple'? and camna pulak cari pasangan tanpa bercouple?


12 comments:

wawahebat said...

helmi,..sy suke post anda ini,.. tq berkongsi..n i like the equations!!! :))

Rose Of Deen said...

salam ...
hemli, nice post btw...
tq, u shared..
x ramai yang suke share psal ni..
so, hurmm.. u made it!
should i say.. congratz??
yeah! congratz friend! =)

nwy to wawa hebat,
suke the questions??
every questions come w answer..
y not sab give the answer??
ngahahahaha..
just eager nak tahu..
hohoho...

dhilaaziz said...

nice post, good point of view..
btw, frankly speaking, i thought helmi is a kind of person who never date before. haha, sebab helmi look simple innocent n easy going.. =)

p/s : Allah save the best for you..just wait till then.

Musthakim Mahadi said...

Helmy aku jawab soalan ko yg kat p/s tue....
(1) Aku mgelak dr bercouple dgn mmbil sikap....terlalu memilih

(2) Herm cari psangan dgn xbkapel mlalui.....lgkapkan diri anda dgn slgkapnya n insyallah psangan sekufu akan muncul dlm hidup anda

Mohd Helmi said...

haha tq to all!
ape yg baek kite ambil, yg tak baek kite jauhkan..

walaupun aku buat post camnih tp aku still harap aku ade kekuatan tuk ngelak dari mende2 camnih..maklumlah, raging hormone lah katekan haha

wawa: buatla equation lain lak hehe

cik rose: thanx buddy =)

dhila: haish, aku x innocent eh..aku insan biasa gak huhuu..btw, tq hehe

mus: haha thanx 4 ur suggestion! bile kite wat camtuh baru bley dpt yg terbaek kan..muahaha..inshaAllah

AtiqahHanisMustapa said...
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AtiqahHanisMustapa said...

Salam helmi,
thumb up to you coz you have intention to post such a valueable entry..

anyway, as u know helmi
i had went thru this situation,
am sure u know this..
so, yup am totally agree, all this things just lead to ZINA
the final decision that lead me to what i am today is the best one.
not to be proud but,
frankly speaking i feel lebih dekat dengan Allah dan Dia masih sayangkan hambaNya.

Sedih mestilah, but i never stop pray everyday that Allah will give us chance to be together future and hereafter and avoid us far far far away from zina

So, Helmi, berdoalahhh
kerana Dia Maha Mendengar
agar kamu terus kuat and insyaALLAH kalau ada jodoh tak kemana..right now, ur studies is much3x important..ngeee~~

adeyhhh, panjang plakkk dah ngahahaha
sorry la...
ok,thats all..
thanx again for sharing. =)

Mohd Helmi said...

atiqah anees : thanx so much phwen!
setiap yg terjadi ade hikmahnya..tahniah sbb ade kekuatan utk melawan perasaan sendiri demi keredhaan-Nya...bkn semua org ade kekuatan camtuh..aku yg mengepost entry ni pun sbenarnya still xbrapa yakin dgn diri aku..but we hv to try right..btw, yup..kiter mesti dahulukan yg utama dulu..good luck for us all in our journey tru success!!

=)

AtiqahHanisMustapa said...

heyyy pakcikkkk anesssssssss plakkkkk
ngaghahaha cam najwa taw!!!
okeh2, takpe i know u are enough strong

okie, same2 berjaya!!!! =]

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LaVenDetTo said...

gila ah helmy. ahahahahah~~~
XDDDDD

Mohd Helmi said...

farahy: aku xgila la!! haha